San Jose’s Hottest Lifestyle Parties

Welcome to Illuminaughty San Jose — home of Silicon Valley’s premier lifestyle parties and swinger community events. Illuminaughty has been hosting events in South Bay and San Jose since 2023 and we have built an upbeat and flirtacious community. From sultry lifestyle cocktail mixers to luxurious estate play parties, Illuminaughty offers private curated events for lifestyle newcomers and veterans alike. Each month, we bring together open-minded couples and singles in their 20s, 30s and early 40s to mingle, play and explore their desires in a safe, consent forward space. Apply for membership now to join us and see why Illuminaughty is the premier lifestyle community.

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Experience the San Jose & Silicon Valley Swinger Lifestyle

Searching for a luxurious swinger club or a classy private play party in the South Bay? Illuminaughty San Jose hosts private, curated cocktail mixers and lifestyle parties in for curious and open-minded couples an singles interested in ENM. Whether you’re a beginner or a master of adult play, you’ll feel at home with our friendly and welcoming community at Illuminaughty’s playful consent and communication focused events. We look forward to welcoming you at our next event!

We don’t hire any models, performers, or influencers to be at our events. All of the beautiful, kind, compassionate, and inspiring people who show up are members and are there for the same reason: to connect with like-minded humans.

To attend an Illuminaughty event, you must be a member. There is no cost for membership, but you must apply. Members are carefully selected and not everyone will be approved.