Membership Application


To attend an illuminaughty event, you must first apply for membership. If you are approved, you will be added to our invite list and receive an email within 3 days granting you access to the members section of our website. Members are carefully selected and not everyone will be approved. All information submitted is private and will only be seen by our staff. Make sure to check your spam folder for our emails.

*Single male applications may take longer to review.

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Membership Type

First Name(s) & Last Initial(s). Must match driver's license for security check at events.


What is your lifestyle experience?

We handle all operations, setup, teardown, and cleanup so you can sit back and enjoy the event yourself. Our hosts are thanked during the opening talk and very appreciated by the community. We take wonderful care of the home and also offer financial compensation as a thank you. We have always been invited back by our hosts and are always looking for new places to host as our community grows.


Upload Photos (.png, .gif, .jpg, .jpeg)

Must clearly show the face and physique of each person or your application will not be approved. A photo showing your smile is helpful.

*For single man applicants, including a shirtless photo is recommended.

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The privacy and safety of Illuminaughty and our members is our highest priority. To attend an Illuminaughty event, you hereby agree that you have read and agree to follow our rules:

  • Consent is mandatory. Always ask permission to touch anyone or join a scene.
  • Respect boundaries. No means no.
  • Protection is provided in all play areas and use is expected unless explicitly discussed by all parties.
  • Respect the privacy of other members. Do not discuss details or share stories about members or who you saw at an event. You are welcome to discuss details or share stories of your own experience without identifying anyone else.
  • Photos are allowed during the arrival time window before the opening talk with consent of all parties in the photo. No crowd shots or people in the background.
  • Illegal substances are not allowed.
  • Money exchange for acts is not allowed.

Violating these rules will result in removal from the event and cancellation of membership without compensation.