San Francisco’s Hottest Lifestyle Parties

Welcome to Illuminaughty San Francisco — home of the Bay Area’s premier lifestyle parties and ENM community events. Illuminaughty launched it’s first swinger party in SF in early 2024 and our community in the Bay has exploded ever since, with most events selling out. Every month, we host private, curated, consent-forward experiences for open-minded couples and singles ages 21 to 45. Our San Francisco swinger community is known for being bold, expressive, and deeply connected — and the energy at our events always reflects the spirit of this vibrant city.

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Experience the San Francisco Bay Area Swinger Lifestyle

Searching for a high-end swinger club in San Francisco or an upscale sex party in the Bay Area? Illuminaughty hosts private, invitation-only lifestyle parties in San Francisco for those living or exploring ethical non-monogamy. Whether you’re new to the scene or a longtime member of the San Francisco swingers community, our events offer a sexy, elevated space to connect, flirt, and play. Join us for the next cocktail mixer or play party in San Francisco, and experience why so many couples and singles in Northern California choose Illuminaughty.

We don’t hire any models, performers, or influencers to be at our events. All of the beautiful, kind, compassionate, and inspiring people who show up are members and are there for the same reason: to connect with like-minded humans.

To attend an Illuminaughty event, you must be a member. There is no cost for membership, but you must apply. Members are carefully selected and not everyone will be approved.