San Diego’s Hottest Lifestyle Parties

San Diego was one of the first cities to embrace Illuminaughty — and it remains one of our most welcoming and wild communities. Since 2022, we’ve hosted sexy, high-energy swinger parties in San Diego for open-minded couples and singles aged 21 to 45 that regularly sell out, so don’t wait too long to get tickets. The community is friendly, playful, and incredibly sexy, with new members joining every day. Whether you’re a returning guest or new to the scene, the San Diego lifestyle crowd always brings the heat.

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Experience the San Diego Swinger Lifestyle

Looking for a classy swinger club in San Diego that’s a step above the rest? Want to meet other sexy couples and singles at a private curated play party in a luxurious home? Illuminaughty hosts exclusive, invite-only swinger parties and ENM focused cocktail mixers in San Diego for our friendly community of couples and singles. Illuminaughty steps up the experience to provide a safe and comfortable atmosphere where you can play and explore in a consent focused space with your peers. Whether you’re searching for a San Diego sex party this weekend, exploring ethical non-monogamy for the first time, or already part of the San Diego swingers community, our events offer the perfect mix of welcoming San Diego vibes and upscale class. Discover why we’re Southern California’s favorite exclusive lifestyle club.

We don’t hire any models, performers, or influencers to be at our events. All of the beautiful, kind, compassionate, and inspiring people who show up are members and are there for the same reason: to connect with like-minded humans.

To attend an Illuminaughty event, you must be a member. There is no cost for membership, but you must apply. Members are carefully selected and not everyone will be approved.