Rules

Violating these rules will result in removal from the event and cancellation of membership without compensation.

  • Consent is mandatory. Always ask permission to touch anyone or join a scene. We have a ZERO tolerance policy for consent violations. If you violate consent with someone or make someone uncomfortable, you will be asked to leave and your membership removed.

 

  • Only ask once. If someone says no to you, don’t ask again and leave them alone for the rest of the event. Respect boundaries. No means no.

     

    • Protection is provided in all play areas and use is expected unless explicitly discussed by all parties ahead of time. If it’s not discussed ahead of time, the expectation is that protection will be used.

     

    • Respect the privacy of other members. Do not discuss details or share stories about members or who you saw at an event. You are welcome to discuss details or share stories of your own experience without identifying anyone else.

     

    • Photos are allowed during the arrival time window before the opening talk with consent of all parties in the photo. No crowd shots or people in the background.

     

    • Illegal substances are not allowed.

     

    •  Money exchange for acts is not allowed.

     

    • Members must demonstrate a level of self-awareness, independence, and responsibility such that they are able to interact with our community in a way that keeps themselves and everyone else safe.

     

    • Members agree to respectfully follow the direction of event staff at all times. Failure to do so may result in removal from the event and/or cancellation of membership.

     

    Violating the terms of use of our mobile app is also grounds for cancellation of membership including but not limited to:

    • Harassment, bullying, intimidation, or threats
    • Hate speech or discriminatory conduct
    • Unwanted sexual advances or coercion
    • Repeated contact after a clear refusal
    • Encouraging illegal or non-consensual activity
    • Solicitation of sexual services in exchange for money or compensation
    • Any conduct that makes other members feel unsafe

    Etiquette

    • Discuss fantasies and boundaries with your partner before an event.  It’s also good practice to check in with each other throughout the event.

     

    • Only consent to things when you feel like “hell yes I want that”.  If you’re a “maybe”, it’s best to say “no”.

     

    • “No” is a complete sentence.

     

    • You are free to change your mind and we encourage it.  If you say “no” to someone or something and then later change your mind and want to try it, find them and let them know.

     

    • If you try something and decide you don’t like it, change your mind and stop.  “I’d like to stop” and “I feel complete” are nice ways to communicate that you are finished with a scene.

     

    • We expect our members to get tested regularly, know their results, and be prepared to have a conversation about their results and practices with prospective partners.
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