September 23, 2023


7pm to 1am

Del Mar, CA

Illuminaughty Eros Event

Couples, Single Ladies, & Limited Single Men

Ticket Sales Have Ended

  Illuminaughty is a curated community that is best known for the caliber of our members. We pride ourselves on our meticulous selection process to create events where fit and active members in their 20s, 30s, and early 40s can mingle and play with their peers. The average age of our guests is 31 years old for women and 35 for men. At illuminaughty, the vibe is welcoming and playful and every detail is carefully crafted to awaken the senses and ignite passions. Immerse yourself in a world where exquisite company and extraordinary experiences intertwine seamlessly.

  Illuminaughty Eros events are open to couples, single women, and a small number of single men. Our single male members are carefully selected to be intelligent, self-aware, respectful, confident, and gym fit. The number of single male tickets will be adjusted as single female tickets are sold to gender balance the event. If you are a single male looking to join and tickets are not available, select a waitlist ticket to reserve your space in line and be notified as soon as a ticket is available.


  Join our community of beautiful, open-minded, and respectful members for a bougie night of opulence. Show up dripping in pearls and diamonds, silver, gold, or whatever your pleasure. This is the night to wear the statement piece that is often “too much”. Costume jewelry is welcome.

  This sexy Drip party will be held at a luxurious home in old Del Mar with ocean views and will feature carefully orchestrated music, lighting, and decor. There are multiple playrooms available to enjoy.



  Dress as lavishly as your raw desires want you to. Nothing is too much for Drip. Ladies wear decadence. This is the event to wear those bold and risqué items that you love but never get to wear. Cocktail dresses, gowns, chain or mesh bodysuits, lingerie, body jewelry, etc. Costume jewelry is welcome. Nothing is too sexy or too extravagant. We only ask that you keep it PG between the car and the house before and after the event.

  For men, suits and tuxedos are the norm. Fashionable men – feel free to take liberties. Bold suits and statement jewelry are encouraged.

  Doors open at 7:00pm and we ask that you arrive by 8:30. We will close the doors at 8:30 and have a brief orientation.  (Pro Tip: Arriving earlier allows a little more time to settle in, connect and flirt with lots of new amazing people.)


→ The venue address will be emailed to all ticket holders on the morning of the event.

  This party is BYOB.  We will provide cups, champagne glasses and a variety of mixers for your use.


Nearby hotels for out-of-town guests:

Best Western Premier Del Mar ($$) 720 Camino Del Mar, Del Mar, CA 92014 (858) 755-9765

Hotel Indigo Del Mar ($$$) 710 Camino Del Mar, Del Mar, CA 92014 (858) 755-1501


  Refunds are available up to 48 hours prior to the event with a 3.5% CC fee.