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Sweet Surrender

September 27, 2025

Saturday 8pm to 2am

Silicon Valley, CA

SWEET SURRENDER LIFESTYLE PARTY – SILICONE VALLEY, CA

Join us for the Illuminaughty Sweet Surrender party at a luxurious mansion in the Los Altos Hills. Sweet Surrender is a deliciously playful evening that begins with sugar and spice and everything nice. Make your entrance dressed sweet and classy. Enjoy a cocktail, flirt, and begin to tease your desires. As the night unfolds, the energy will change, the music will shift, and the desires will take over. You’ll slip out of your dress, and step into a different version of yourself: bold, unrestrained, and deeply alive. Tighten the straps of a black leather harness over delicate, naughty lingerie. The mix of textures and tension awakening something raw and electric within.  The room hums as sultry friends and sexy strangers emerge in latex and collars, leather, and harnesses. Their eyes hold curiosity, care, and a flicker of shared mischief. It’s not just about pleasure; it’s about freedom—the kind found only when you’re surrounded by people who see you and hold you. Here, wrapped in trust and mutual desire, you feel completely safe to be naughty—to let go, to…surrender.

This is a light kink play party—an invitation to experiment, not an expectation to perform. How does the sensation of touch change with a blindfold on? Do you enjoy a spanking or the smack of leather on your booty? Or have you just been a bad bad boy this year? Whether you’re curious or experienced, all are welcome in this safe, consent-forward space. This beautiful home will feature a variety of play spaces, massage tables, and carefully orchestrated music, lighting, and decor to tantalize your senses. Join the sexiest ENM community in town for a night filled with connection, expression, and transformation. Lose yourself in the contrast of playful sweetness and seductive power.

You are encouraged to bring toys, blindfolds, feathers, floggers, etc.  Bring your favorite toy, and show someone else why you love it.

DRESS CODE

This is a swinger party about transformation and exploration. Women dress sweet and classy when you arrive, like you’re going out for a nice dinner. Men wear suits or cocktail attire. If you’d like, wear a naughty or kinky outfit underneath or bring it as a change of clothes. Sometime shortly after the opening talk, the music and energy will shift and the time will be right to strip away the sweetness and bring out the wilder and kinky side.

We ask that you keep it PG between the car and the house before and after the event.

Doors open at 8:00pm and you must arrive by 9:30. We will close the doors at 9:30 and have a brief orientation to discuss rules & consent. Everyone must attend, no exceptions.

Pro Tip:  Arrive closer to 8pm so you have time to meet lots of sexy new friends as they arrive, before the party gets busy, especially if it’s your first event.

This party is BYOB.  We will provide cups, champagne glasses and a variety of mixers for your use.

→ The venue address will be emailed to all ticket holders on the morning of the event.

Refunds are available up to 5 days prior to event start. 5% CC fee is non-refundable.

*VOLUNTEERS READ*

We put in a lot of work to make these events amazing for our community and your help is greatly appreciated. We count on our volunteers, which means it’s very hard on us if you cancel, especially last minute. So please consider this and let us know as early as possible if you cannot make it. As a thank you for helping, you will receive free entry to enjoy the event.

If you sign up to volunteer and no-call no-show, your Illuminaughty membership will be cancelled.

Nearby hotels for out-of-town guests:

SureStay Plus by Best Western Mountain View ($$) 2300 W El Camino Real, Mountain View, CA 94040•(650) 962-9912

Enchanté Boutique Hotel ($$$$) 1 Main St, Los Altos, CA 94022•(650) 946-2000