Scarlet Seduction

February 17, 2024


8pm to 2am

San Diego, CA

Illuminaughty Eros Event

Couples, Single Ladies, & Limited Single Men

Ticket Sales Have Ended

Illuminaughty is a curated community that is best known for the caliber of our members and the safe and comfortable environment we create. We pride ourselves on our meticulous selection process and attention to detail to create events where fit and active members in their 20s, 30s, and early 40s can mingle and play with their peers in free expression. We don’t hire any models, performers, or influencers to be at our events. All of the beautiful, kind, compassionate, and inspiring people who show up are members of our community and are there for the same reason: to connect with like-minded humans.

The average age of our guests is 31 years old for women and 35 for men. At Illuminaughty, the vibe is welcoming and playful. Every detail is carefully crafted to awaken the senses and ignite passions. Immerse yourself in a world where exquisite company and extraordinary experiences intertwine seamlessly.

Illuminaughty Eros events are open to couples, single women, and a small number of single men (typically 2-4 at an event). Our single man members are carefully selected to be intelligent, self-aware, respectful, confident, and gym fit. The number of single man tickets will be adjusted as single women tickets are sold to gender balance the event. If you are a single man looking to join and tickets are not available, select a waitlist ticket to reserve your space in line and be notified as soon as a ticket is available. We typically open one or two additional single man tickets a day or two before the event.


This Valentine’s Day, Illuminaughty invites you to an evening where passion reigns supreme. In a night dedicated to the exploration of love and desire, we create a space where romance intertwines with the thrill of seduction, offering an unforgettable experience for couples and singles alike.

Adorned with romantic décor, ambient lighting, and intimate spaces, this stunning new venue in Mission Hills will ignite the flames of desire and set hearts racing.


Dress to seduce and be seduced. This is a red dress party, so think reds with black accents. For men, black suits and red accents are the norm. Fasionable men, feel free to take liberties. Whether it’s a stunning dress, a sharp suit, or something more daring, your outfit should speak the language of lust and love.

You are welcome to bring a change of clothes for later in the evening, we only ask that you keep it PG between the car and the house before and after the event.

Doors open at 8:00pm and you must arrive by 9:30. We will close the doors at 9:30 and have a brief orientation. (Pro Tip: Arriving earlier allows a little more time to settle in, connect and flirt with lots of new amazing people.)


→ The venue address will be emailed to all ticket holders on the morning of the event.

This party is BYOB.  We will provide cups, champagne glasses and a variety of mixers for your use.


Nearby hotels for out-of-town guests:

Porto Vista Hotel ($$) 1835 Columbia St, San Diego, CA 92101(619) 544-0164

Inn at the Park ($$$) 525 Spruce St, San Diego, CA 92103(619) 291-0999


Refunds are available up to 48 hours prior to the event with a 3.5% CC fee.