Pajama Party

May 25, 2024


8pm to 2am


Newport Beach, CA

Costa Mesa, CA

Illuminaughty Eros Event

Couples, Single Ladies, & Limited Single Men

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Illuminaughty is a curated community that is best known for the caliber of our members and the safe and comfortable environment we create. We pride ourselves on our meticulous selection process and attention to detail to create events where fit and active members in their 20s, 30s, and early 40s can mingle and play with their peers in free expression. We don’t hire any models, performers, or influencers to be at our events. All of the beautiful, kind, compassionate, and inspiring people who show up are members of our community and are there for the same reason: to connect with like-minded humans.

The average age of our guests is 31 years old for women and 35 for men. At Illuminaughty, the vibe is welcoming and playful. Every detail is carefully crafted to awaken the senses and ignite passions. Immerse yourself in a world where exquisite company and extraordinary experiences intertwine seamlessly.

Illuminaughty Eros events are open to couples, single women, and a small number of single men (typically 2-4 at an event). Our single man members are carefully selected to be intelligent, self-aware, respectful, confident, and gym fit. The number of single man tickets will be adjusted as single women tickets are sold to gender balance the event. If you are a single man looking to join and tickets are not available, select a waitlist ticket to reserve your space in line and be notified as soon as a ticket is available. We typically open one or two additional single man tickets a day or two before the event.


Step into a world of comfort, playfulness, and sensuality. Illuminaughty invites you to a unique Pajama Party, complete with fun and silly connection games, snacks and hot cocoa to share (dairy and non-dairy options), and plenty of pillows for snuggling or pillow fighting!

There will be variety of rooms tailored for your pleasure at this wild and exciting new venue.

Build lasting connections with our community of like-minded Illuminaughty members. Engage with couples and singles eager to connect and share unforgettable moments.


Embrace the theme! Don your coziest or sexiest pajamas and let the night’s adventures begin. Feel free to bring a few pajamas and outfit change throughout the evening. Remember, the journey between your car and our venue should remain PG.

Doors open at 8:00pm and you must arrive by 9:30. We will close the doors at 9:30 and have a brief orientation. (Pro Tip: Arriving earlier allows a little more time to settle in, connect and flirt with new amazing people before the party gets going.)


It takes a ton of work to make these events amazing for our community and we count on our volunteers to help. As a thank you for helping, you will receive free entry to enjoy the event.

However, because there are only limited volunteer spaces available and it’s hard on the team if you don’t show up, there is a small fee to book the volunteer spot. This fee will be refunded once you show up and perform the duties you signed up for.

If you sign up to volunteer and do not show up and do not contact us ahead of time to let us know, you forfeit this fee and your Illuminaughty membership will be removed.


→ The venue address will be emailed to all ticket holders on the morning of the event.

This party is BYOB.  We will provide cups, champagne glasses and a variety of mixers for your use.


Nearby hotels for out-of-town guests:

Ramada by Wyndham Costa Mesa/Newport Beach ($$) 1680 Superior Ave I-405, Costa Mesa, CA 92627(949) 645-2221

Holiday Inn Express & Suites Costa Mesa ($$$) 2070 Newport Blvd, Costa Mesa, CA 92627(949) 631-6000


Refunds are available up to 48 hours prior to the event with a 5% CC processing fee.