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Illuminaughty Eros Event

Couples, Single Ladies, & Limited Single Men

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Illuminaughty is a curated community that is best known for the caliber of our members and the safe and comfortable environment we create. We pride ourselves on our meticulous selection process and attention to detail to create events where fit and active members in their 20s, 30s, and early 40s can mingle and play with their peers in free expression. We don’t hire any models, performers, or influencers to be at our events. All of the beautiful, kind, compassionate, and inspiring people who show up are members of our community and are there for the same reason: to connect with like-minded humans.

The average age of our guests is 31 years old for women and 35 for men. At Illuminaughty, the vibe is welcoming and playful. Every detail is carefully crafted to awaken the senses and ignite passions. Immerse yourself in a world where exquisite company and extraordinary experiences intertwine seamlessly.

Illuminaughty Eros events are open to couples, single women, and a small number of single men (typically 2-4 at an event). Our single male members are carefully selected to be intelligent, self-aware, respectful, confident, and gym fit. The number of single male tickets will be adjusted as single female tickets are sold to gender balance the event. If you are a single male looking to join and tickets are not available, select a waitlist ticket to reserve your space in line and be notified as soon as a ticket is available.

NEON – SAN DIEGO, CA

Join our community of beautiful, open-minded, and respectful members for a sexy, neon filled night of indulgence, exploration and fantasy. 

Neon will be held at a beautiful, private home overlooking Mission Valley. There are stunning views, a private spa, and a variety of indoor and outdoor spaces to enjoy time with new and old friends.

DRESS CODE

This is a Neon themed party. Dress in your sexiest Neon outfit or lingerie. Men dress on theme or in suits.

We ask that you keep it classy and PG between the car and the venue before and after the event.

You are welcome to bring a change of a clothes for later in the evening.

Doors open at 8:00pm and you must arrive by 9:30. We will close the doors at 9:30 and have a brief orientation. (Pro Tip: Arriving earlier allows a little more time to settle in, connect and flirt with lots of new amazing people.)

*VOLUNTEERS READ*

It takes a ton of work to make these events amazing for our community and we count on our volunteers to help. As a thank you for helping, you will receive free entry to enjoy the event.

However, because there are only limited volunteer spaces available and it’s hard on the team if you don’t show up, there is a small fee to book the volunteer spot. This fee will be refunded once you show up and perform the duties you signed up for.

If you sign up to volunteer and do not show up and do not contact us ahead of time to let us know, you forfeit this fee and your Illuminaughty membership will be removed.

→ The venue address will be emailed to all ticket holders on the morning of the event.

This party is BYOB.  We will provide cups, champagne glasses and a variety of mixers for your use.

Nearby hotels for out-of-town guests:

SpringHill Suites by Marriott San Diego Mission Valley ($$) 2401 Camino Del Rio N, San Diego, CA 92108

The Lafayette Hotel ($$$) 2223 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104

  Refunds are available up to 48 hours prior to the event with a 3.5% CC fee.