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Heaven & Hell

January 20, 2024


8pm to 2am

San Diego, CA

Illuminaughty Eros Event

Couples, Single Ladies, & Limited Single Men


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Illuminaughty is a curated community that is best known for the caliber of our members and the safe and comfortable environment we create. We pride ourselves on our meticulous selection process and attention to detail to create events where fit and active members in their 20s, 30s, and early 40s can mingle and play with their peers in free expression. We don’t hire any models, performers, or influencers to be at our events. All of the beautiful, kind, compassionate, and inspiring people who show up are members of our community and are there for the same reason: to connect with like-minded humans.

The average age of our guests is 31 years old for women and 35 for men. At Illuminaughty, the vibe is welcoming and playful. Every detail is carefully crafted to awaken the senses and ignite passions. Immerse yourself in a world where exquisite company and extraordinary experiences intertwine seamlessly.

Illuminaughty Eros events are open to couples, single women, and a small number of single men (typically 2-4 at an event). Our single man members are carefully selected to be intelligent, self-aware, respectful, confident, and gym fit. The number of single man tickets will be adjusted as single women tickets are sold to gender balance the event. If you are a single man looking to join and tickets are not available, select a waitlist ticket to reserve your space in line and be notified as soon as a ticket is available. We typically open one or two additional single man tickets a day or two before the event.


Dive into an ethereal night where the divine meets the wicked at Illuminaughty’s Heaven & Hell Party. This celestial soirée is not just a party; it’s a journey through the extremes of bliss and sin. Prepare to be transported to a realm where angels and demons play in harmony, and every corner holds a new temptation or salvation.

Set in a breathtaking location, our venue will be split into two contrasting realms. One half will be transformed into a heavenly paradise, bathed in soft, glowing lights, and ethereal decor. The other half will delve into the depths of hell, with fiery visuals and devilishly enticing settings. This sexy venue features breathtaking views, indoor and outdoor play areas to enjoy as well as a spa.



Embrace your inner angel or demon with your attire. Angels may adorn themselves in flowing white, shimmering silver, or ethereal pastels, while demons can unleash their dark side in reds, blacks, and sultry styles. Remember, at Illuminaughty, we encourage creativity and bold expressions of self.

You are welcome to bring a change of clothes for later in the evening, we only ask that you keep it PG between the car and the house before and after the event.

Doors open at 8:00pm and you must arrive by 9:30. We will close the doors at 9:30 and have a brief orientation.  (Pro Tip: Arriving earlier allows a little more time to settle in, connect and flirt with lots of new amazing people.)


→ The venue address will be emailed to all ticket holders on the morning of the event.

This party is BYOB.  We will provide cups, champagne glasses and a variety of mixers for your use.


Nearby hotels for out-of-town guests:

SpringHill Suites by Marriott San Diego Mission Valley ($$) 2401 Camino Del Rio N, San Diego, CA 92108

The Lafayette Hotel ($$$) 2223 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego, CA 92104


Refunds are available up to 48 hours prior to the event with a 3.5% CC fee.