Destination: Big Bear
October 25-27, 2024
Friday 1pm to Sunday 2pm
Big Bear Lake, CA
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Couples, Single Ladies, & Limited Single Men
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Join us for an unforgettable weekend in Big Bear as we take over a mountain lodge for the ultimate Illuminaughty getaway. There are beds to sleep 70, ranging from spacious private chalets to cozy rooms right in the action.
Daytime activities will include morning yoga, guided Shibari and acro yoga practice. Or, get some quiet time with a nearby 3 mile nature hike.
For dinner Saturday, join the group for a nice dinner out on the town, or take some downtime for yourself. Themed play parties will be held on both Friday and Saturday nights, giving guests the chance to connect and explore in a safe, intimate setting.
Whether you’re looking to build new connections or deepen existing ones, this weekend offers the perfect space to enjoy, unwind, and grow together.
Step into a world of mystery, magic, and mayhem as Illuminaughty presents the ultimate Halloween Costume Party on Friday night. Get ready to celebrate the spookiest night of the year in grand style!
This stunning venue will be transformed into a haunted mountain escape, complete with eerie lighting, ghostly decor, and multiple playrooms that echo with whispers of forbidden desires.
DRESS CODE
Unleash your creativity and come dressed in your most captivating Halloween costumes. Whether you’re a sultry witch, a dashing pirate, or a classic vampire, make sure your outfit is as enchanting as the night itself. Wear as much or as little as you like, nothing is too sexy or too extravagant.
Dive into the dynamic world of Acro Yoga in this exciting workshop on Saturday afternoon. Led by fellow Illuminaughty members, Jordo & Madi, you’ll learn and practice the foundational skills of partner acrobatics to connect and play. Beginners welcome!
The legendary Matt & Muse are leading an intro to shibari workshop Saturday afternoon. Matt has been practicing rope for 18 years and has been educating and performing together with Muse for 3 1/2 years. Their passion is educating and helping others to explore the world of rope.
They will cover safety and the basics of using rope as a language to share intimacy and play with power and consent.
This two hour long workshop is meant to spark your curiosity and enhance your exploration throughout the weekend.
Saturday night you’ll unwind from a fun-filled day and slip into your jammies for a cozy and sensual night. Step into a world of comfort, playfulness, and sensuality. Illuminaughty invites you to a unique Pajama Party, complete with fun and silly connection games, snacks and hot cocoa to share (dairy and non-dairy options), and plenty of pillows for snuggling or pillow fighting!
There will be variety of play spaces tailored for your pleasure at this wild and exciting venue, or find your friends and dip off to your private room for some fun after dark.
DRESS CODE
Embrace the theme! Don your coziest or sexiest pajamas and let the night’s adventures begin. Feel free to bring a few pajamas and outfit change throughout the evening.
Accommodations
Rooms are extremely limited. Book early to get the room that you want. Some rooms have multiple beds or pull-out sofa beds so we encourage you to get together with friends to share rooms. The more the merrier! We’d love to give as many Illuminaughty members as possible the chance to join us for this incredible weekend.
If you book a room that has an extra bed and you’re open to sharing with a single woman, single man, or couple, please email us to let us know.
If rooms are sold out, you can still get admission tickets and arrange your own off-site accommodations. Due to the recent fires in the Big Bear area, many events have been rescheduled and nearby rooms may sell out sooner than expected. I encourage you to book your accommodations early.
Please be discrete and do not mention this event if you are booking accommodations elsewhere. Here are some nearby accommodations:
Walking Distance:
Sleepy Forest Resorts 0.1 miles ($$) 404 Eureka Dr, Big Bear Lake, CA 92315(909) 866-7444
Snow Lake Lodge 0.2 miles ($$) 41579 Big Bear Blvd, Big Bear Lake, CA 92315(909) 866-4694
1 Minute Drive:
Colorado Lodge 0.4 miles ($$$) 606 Jeffries Rd, Big Bear Lake, CA 92315(909) 494-2380
Whether you choose a cozy airbnb, or a nearby hotel, you’ll be welcome any time at the event resort with your admission ticket and can attend any of the parties or workshops. There will be plenty of opportunities to kick back and drop in with community.
The Lodge
For socialites who want to be close to the action. The Lodge is where the main play areas will be. Get your own private room right in the mix to maximize your experience.
- Private rooms available with one queen or two queen beds.
- Include en suite bathroom, walk-in closet, smart TV, and high-speed Wi-Fi.
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The Club
The Club is just a short walk across the parking lot to the main play areas at The Lodge.
- Artistically crafted, cozy units.
- Convenient amenities including private bathroom, closet, minifridge, coffee maker, smart TV, and high-speed Wi-Fi.
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The Chalet
These charming duplex cabins feature a full kitchen and living room, queen bed, and sofa w/ fold-out queen bed. Your cute home away from home is just across the parking lot from The Lodge.
- 1-bed studio suite with living room, full kitchen, private bathroom, queen bed and sofa w/ pull out queen.
- Smart TV, high-speed Wi-Fi, dining table and fireplace (based on availability).
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This event is open to couples, single women, and a small number of single men (typically 2-4 at an event). Our single men are carefully selected to be intelligent, self-aware, respectful, confident, and gym fit. The number of single man tickets will be adjusted as single woman tickets are sold to gender balance the event. If you are a single man looking to join and tickets are not available, select a waitlist ticket to reserve your space in line and be notified as soon as a ticket is available.
Illuminaughty is a curated community that is best known for the caliber of our members and the safe and comfortable environment we create. We pride ourselves on our meticulous selection process and attention to detail to create events where fit and active members in their 20s, 30s, and early 40s can mingle and play with their peers in free expression. We don’t hire any models, performers, or influencers to be at our events. All of the beautiful, kind, compassionate, and inspiring people who show up are members of our community and are there for the same reason: to connect with like-minded humans.
The average age of our guests is 31 years old for women and 35 for men. At Illuminaughty, the vibe is welcoming and playful. Every detail is carefully crafted to awaken the senses and ignite passions. Immerse yourself in a world where exquisite company and extraordinary experiences intertwine seamlessly.
Arrival to the resort begins at 1pm Friday. You can arrive any time until midnight Friday. Gates will close at midnight and open again at 10am Saturday incase you aren’t able to come Friday night but would still like to attend the weekend.
There is a bar on site that will be open certain hours. We recommend you also BYOB. We will provide cups, champagne glasses and a variety of mixers for your use.
→ The venue address will be emailed to all ticket holders on Thursday before the event.
Refunds are available up to 5 days prior to the event with a 5% CC fee.
