September 30, 2023


8pm to 2am

San Francisco, CA

Illuminaughty Eros Event

Couples, Single Ladies, & Limited Single Men

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  Illuminaughty is a curated community that is best known for the caliber of our members. We pride ourselves on our meticulous selection process to create events where fit and active members in their 20s, 30s, and early 40s can mingle and play with their peers. The average age of our guests is 31 years old for women and 35 for men. At illuminaughty, the vibe is welcoming and playful and every detail is carefully crafted to awaken the senses and ignite passions. Immerse yourself in a world where exquisite company and extraordinary experiences intertwine seamlessly.

  Illuminaughty Eros events are open to couples, single women, and a small number of single men. Our single male members are carefully selected to be intelligent, self-aware, respectful, confident, and gym fit. The number of single male tickets will be adjusted as single female tickets are sold to gender balance the event. If you are a single male looking to join and tickets are not available, select a waitlist ticket to reserve your space in line and be notified as soon as a ticket is available.


  Join our community of beautiful, open-minded, and respectful members for a sexy night of indulgence, exploration and fantasy. This Desire party will be held at a new venue in San Francisco’s Nob Hill District in the heart of the city. This sexy venue will feature carefully orchestrated music, lighting, and decor. There are multiple playrooms available to enjoy.



  Ladies wear dresses, skirts, stylish pants, or lingerie. Step it up and make some heads turn and jaws drop. Nothing is too sexy or too extravagant. We only ask that you keep it classy and PG between the car and the venue before and after the event. You are welcome to bring lingerie to change into once inside. Men wear suits. Stylish men, feel free to take liberties.

  Doors open at 8:00pm and we ask that you arrive by 9:30. We will close the doors at 9:30 and have a brief orientation.  (Pro Tip: Arriving earlier allows a little more time to settle in, connect and flirt with lots of new amazing people.)


→ The venue address will be emailed to all ticket holders on the morning of the event.

  This party is BYOB.  We will provide cups, champagne glasses and a variety of mixers for your use.


Nearby hotels for out-of-town guests:

Holiday Inn San Francisco-Golden Gateway ($$) 1500 Van Ness Ave, San Francisco, CA 94109 – (415) 441-4000

Marriott San Francisco Downtown ($$) 1050 Van Ness Ave, San Francisco, CA 94109 – (415) 673-4711


  Refunds are available up to 48 hours prior to the event with a 3.5% CC fee.