New York City’s Hottest Lifestyle Parties

Welcome to Illuminaughty NYC — where sophistication meets seduction in the Big Apple. We began hosting high-end ENM cocktail mixers and exclusive swinger parties New York in 2025. Our events provide a safe, comfortable, and consent focused space for sexy couples and singles in their 20s, 30s, and early 40s to connect, explore and play with their peers. New York City is rich with culture and diversity and we love the bold energy and powerful spirit our members bring to every sex positive event. Apply for membership now to join us at the next event.

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Experience the NYC Swinger Lifestyle

Looking for an exclusive swinger club or a high-end sex party New York City? Illuminaughty hosts curated, invite-only lifestyle events in the city that never sleeps. Whether you’re curious and new to the scene or part of the endless NYC lifestyle network, our events offer a safe, sexy, and consent-forward space to explore connection and pleasure. Come meet our members at a lifestyle cocktail mixer or join us for a sexy play party this weekend, experience the best of New York’s ENM scene, and see why our upscale events are the most anticipated in NYC’s lifestyle circuit.

We don’t hire any models, performers, or influencers to be at our events. All of the beautiful, kind, compassionate, and inspiring people who show up are members and are there for the same reason: to connect with like-minded humans.

To attend an Illuminaughty event, you must be a member. There is no cost for membership, but you must apply. Members are carefully selected and not everyone will be approved.